Finn: Weeks 1 & 2

Weeks 1-2: August 18-31, 2015

Hospital Stay: So great!

View from the room.

View from the room.

We arrived at the hospital at 4:30am on Tuesday, August 18. Finn was born that morning at 8:10am and we checked out at 10:30am on Friday, August 21. We probably could have left that Thursday but while we were at the hospital I was able to focus on resting and since Finn had just gotten circumcised on Wednesday, we were also happy to have the extra help caring for him. Michael and I have said that it’s probably going to be a rude awakening for us to have kids in the US because the level of care and the quality of everything at the hospital here is so high.

Finn meeting his Godparents, Trent & Paige Hudson! Trent made Finn a sign to match his big brother's!

Finn meeting his Godparents, Trent & Paige Hudson! Trent made Finn a sign to match his big brother’s!

Michael and Finn at the hospital.

Michael and Finn at the hospital.

The other thing that was good about our hospital stay is that I feel like it allowed me to bond with Finn a little more before bringing him home. It’s hard to put into words but until Finn joined our family, Colt held 100% of my maternal love and I almost felt protective over that – over the space that he had in my heart. Of course my love for Finn doesn’t take anything away from my love for Colt, but the reality is that Finn’s presence does force me to split my time, energy, and even just who I’m looking at from moment to moment, so in that sense Finn does compete with Colt. Therefore, it was good for me to have a few days just with Finn in order to bond with him and let him find his own unique space in my heart as well.

Sweet snuggle time.

Sweet snuggle time with my new little guy.

On the flip side of that, the hardest thing about our hospital stay for me was missing Colt. We only had him come to the hospital to visit for an hour or so on Tuesday night so I was away from him most of Tuesday and then all of Wednesday and Thursday before we came home on Friday. Michael came home and spent a couple hours with Colt each day and I knew he was doing great, but it was definitely tough to spend that much time away from him.

Michael and Colt on one of his visits home during our hospital stay.

Michael and Colt on one of his visits home during our hospital stay.

Leaving the hospital and heading home!

Leaving the hospital and heading home!

Finn Medical: Praise God – healthy boy!

Looking ready to box!

Looking ready to box!

Weight: 7lbs 15oz. At birth on Tuesday morning, Finn weighed 7lbs 11oz. By Thursday he had gotten down to 7lbs 4oz but by that following Monday he was up to 7lbs 8oz. We just went to the doctor again yesterday and he had gotten up to 7lbs 15oz.
Height: 51.5cm or a little over 20 inches tall.
Clothes: Newborn
Diapers: Newborn
Other: The baby acne is in full-swing and his skin is super flakey. Yesterday (day 13) Finn lost his umbilical cord (always so gross). Also, Finn has a hemangioma located in his lower left abdomen. It’s below the skin but above the muscles so it looks like a hernia sticking out. It’s benign so for now we are just watching it and time will tell if it needs to be removed or if it will work itself out.

Kind of has the balding-old-man hairstyle.

Kind of has the balding-old-man hairstyle. And adorable ears!

Feeding: I’m very thankful it’s going great!

Giving me classic Colt-brows.

Giving me classic Colt-brows.

Nursing is going really well – very similar to how it went with Colt. We have been feeding around every 3.5 hours during the day (normally we have to wake Finn up to keep this schedule) and then we feed on-demand at night, generally every 5-6 hours. He eats about 10-20 minutes total (5-10 minutes per side).

There was definitely some pain/discomfort in the first week but I do think it has been easier this time around than with Colt. I’m not sure if it’s just because I knew what to expect so I haven’t been freaked out by anything or if the engorgement truly hasn’t been as bad but either way it’s been fine. Also, similarly to last time, I have been over-producing again which is a problem that I’m thankful to have. I have withheld from pumping and my body is definitely regulating itself but sometimes (especially before bed when it’s going to be a longer stretch before I feed again) I’ll manually express a couple ounces after feeding just to get more relief and to help myself last longer since Finn will normally give us pretty good stretches at night. Finn is a little bit of a sleepy eater and sometimes struggles to latch in the beginning when the flow is really strong so feeding him is usually a pretty wet and messy affair (getting better though!). Plus, he always spits up during and after. Colt was just the same way so I realize it just means that I’ll have another baby who is permanently in a bib.

Sleep: Praise the Lord, so far, Finn is a great sleeper! He is still in the sleepy baby phase so we have to work to keep him up during the day but at night he’s sleeping really well – we are only getting up once each night to feed. Plus, since my mom is here and getting up with Colt each morning at 7:30, I am sleeping in and feeling quite well-rested! (Thanks Gigi!)

Angel face.

Angel face.

Sleeping babies are the sweetest babies!

Sleeping babies are the sweetest babies!

Finn!

Finn!

"Mother Finn"

“Mother Finn”

Schedule: We are starting to move from a routine to a schedule. Of course each day/night is a little different but we are more or less on the following schedule:

8:00 am First morning feed followed by long awake time to establish “day” time.
12:00 pm Lunch feed.
4:00 pm Snack feed.
7:30 pm Dinner feed followed by bath and long awake time to start getting him ready for a good night’s sleep.
9:30 pm Final feed – if possible awake for 1 hour after.
10:30 pm Bedtime for Mom, Dad and Finn.
3:30 am Night feed then right back to sleep.

Finn: Finn’s looks and his personality/demeanor reminds us so much of Colt as a baby. He is a super sweet, calm and chill little guy.

Hey there!

Hey there!

He rarely cries except when he is cold getting his diaper changed or in the bath – not his favorite!

Just trying to get through bath-time.

Just trying to get through bath-time.

I was going to wait to introduce the pacifier to him just in case it affected his ability to nurse well but I caved on our first night home from the hospital and just like his brother, Finn instantly liked the paci. That being said, he definitely goes for his hands (whenever they aren’t covered by gloves) and has already amazed me with his success at getting his thumb – something Colt never really figured out.

Thumb sucker?

Thumb sucker?

Mama Postpartum: Whew-wee!

Although the healing/recovery process has been light years easier than the c-section recovery, the first few days still felt rough. There were just so many things that I wasn’t expecting or that were different this time around. My back felt bruised from the epidural, the cramps I would get while nursing during the first couple days were brutal (I’ve heard that they get worse with each child?!), I was s-o-r-e from the delivery and even worse than the pain, I was mentally super freaked out by it all. I had never gone through anything like this so I was constantly texting girlfriends or googling things to see if what I was feeling/experiencing was normal.

The other side of postpartum recovery is the hormones and mine were absolutely all over the place – definitely worse than they had been with Colt. I think I cried every day for the first week and bonus, they also caused my skin to break out. Oh, and days 3-5 I was randomly really swollen (apparently the uterus is trying to get rid of it’s extra fluids and sometimes that can cause you to swell) and I was super hot all the time – especially at night. Add to all of that a post-baby tummy and week 1 was not a pretty picture.

Of course a sweet baby makes it all worth it and by this point, 2 weeks in, I’d say I feel almost totally back to normal.

Family outing to the Kids' Food-Truck Festival!

Day 11: Family outing to the Kids’ Food-Truck Festival!

Other notes on the week: The first week was full of special moments including meeting our sweet new baby Finn, introducing Colt to his new little brother, having my mom arrive and spending time with friends.

Gigi holding Finn in the beautiful blanket that Aunt Sheryl knitted for him!

My mom, Susan FINCHER Zais, holding Fincher in the gorgeous blanket that Aunt Sheryl FINCHER knit for him.

Out and about with this tiny person!

Out and about with this tiny person!

Day 10: Family fun at the mall bookstore.

Day 10: Family fun at the mall bookstore.

Gigi with her grand-boys.

Gigi with her grand-boys.

Denim on denim - so hot right now.

Denim on denim on denim – so in right now.

Strolling.

Strolling.

Finn "meeting" his great-grandparents, Tom and Clare FINCHER!

Fincher “meeting” his great-grandparents, Tom and Clare FINCHER!

Uncle Joe stopping by for some snuggles.

Uncle Joe stopping by for some snuggles.

Colt has been awesome with Finn and is very sweet to him. He is so gentle whenever he touches him and loves to hold him, pat him and give him kisses. I think Colt realizes that Finn is here to stay and he doesn’t seem to mind. Colt knows that he is a big boy and Finn is a little boy or a little baby and he loves to remind us of that all the time.

Colt seeing Finn at home for the first time.

Colt seeing Finn at home for the first time.

Just the boys.

Just the boys.

Colt loves holding his little brother.

Colt loves holding his little brother.

Colt examining Finn's passport photo, convinced it is a picture of him.

Colt examining Finn’s passport photo, convinced it is a picture of himself.

Colt forcing some snuggle time on Finn.

Colt forcing some snuggle time on Finn.

Sometimes Finn is not so excited about it.

Sometimes Finn is not so excited about it.

Colt really is sweet and gentle with him though.

Colt really is sweet and gentle with him though.

Although he is an awesome big bro, we have seen Colt act out in other ways. I think it was partially due to all of the changes and chaos (us being gone at the hospital for a few days, then coming home with a new baby, then my mom arriving) but he has been giving us a tougher time – more tantrums, more easily frustrated, slower to obey, more “Mine! My toy!” attitude… but we are working on it and it already seems to be improving. We are trying to still set aside special time with him each day and Michael even took him to São Paulo’s “drive-through-zoo” last week which he loved.

Boys at the zoo!

Colt & Dad at the zoo!

Hippo spotting.

Hippo spotting.

Feeding the deer.

Feeding the deer.

Pool fun with Dad!

Pool fun with Dad!

So handsome!

Playing with his buddy Jack.

My heart.

My heart.

Cool dude scooting around the complex.

Cool dude scooting around the complex.

More pool time with Gigi!

More pool time with Gigi!

So handsome - even when he's a little scraped up.

So handsome – even when he’s a little scraped up.

2 thoughts on “Finn: Weeks 1 & 2

  1. I love every word in this post! The photos of Colt and Finn together…I can’t even…precious boys! So happy for y’all and praying for you as you make this exciting transition! Hugs from Mississippi!

  2. I had tears of joy for all of you! thank you for sharing your sweet family with me. You are blessed and I wish you much love and joy in the future weeks and months with your two darling boys! Know Gigi is a wonderful help to you all. love, Joanne Coker

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