The Happiest of Holidays

OK, I know that we’re almost done with February, but I still want to post about our visits home and seeing our families over Christmas and New Years.  However, before we get to the details of each visit, I wanted to share how we shared the news of our pregnancy with our families.  

Since it was Christmas, it seemed natural to give them something to open, so we decided to make something for our parents to open in front of our families.  We had a little onesie made that said, “I love my Grandparents” on the front, and on the back said, “Made in Brazil.”  We wrapped it in a little box so that the first thing they would see would be the “Made in Brazil” – just for fun.

First up was Michael’s family.  We were so eager to tell them, but had to wait until our second night so that the whole family would be together.  We had just finished a family dinner at home and asked everyone to get together for a couple of early gifts.  We had wedding presents for Christy and TJ, so that helped to throw everyone off, and then we gave the little box to Sharon and Ollie.  It’s funny how when I was trying to hide the pregnancy I was so suspicious of other people being suspicious.  But the truth is that no one was suspicious.  At. All.  They were shocked.  In fact, they really didn’t get it at first and thought it was an outfit for their little Yorkies.  Thankfully, Michael quickly announced “Ashley’s pregnant!” and everyone immediately jumped up, giving us hugs and congratulations.  We don’t have pictures but we filmed Sharon opening the gift, so here are a couple of screen-shots from the video.

Can't believe it!

Can’t believe it!

Next up was telling my family.  Although it was Dec. 28, our first night in South Carolina my family had a little fake-Christmas complete with my favorite Christmas meal, gifts and all of the family.  So, after dinner and presents, we gave my parents the final gift.  Similarly to the Harpers, the Zaises were not expecting it at all and initially thought that it was something for my brother’s daughter, Augusta Clare.  Again, it took an announcement to clarify the news, but of course it was met with lots of joy.  We have one photo of my parents and the rest are video screen-shots.

Still not getting it.

Still not getting it.

Right after we shouted out that I was pregnant

Right after we shouted out that I was pregnant

Nan had the best reaction!

Nan had the best reaction!

Happy grandparents!

Happy grandparents!

So fun, right?!  OK — so here is a quick look at the rest of our holidays!

After staying in São Paulo for Thanksgiving, we were really ready to go home for Christmas. Michael and I started our trip in Phoenix where we enjoyed beautiful hikes, the Phoenix Luminarias tour, and lots of family time and relaxation.

Phoenix hike with Ollie & Lise

Phoenix hike with Ollie & Lise

Phoenix night sky

Phoenix night sky

Harper fam at the Luminaries Tour

Harper fam at the Luminarias Tour

Apple cider by the outdoor fire with the most festive guy around.  And a really cute Yorkie.

Apple cider by the outdoor fire with the most festive guy around. And a really cute Yorkie.

After spending Christmas in Phoenix, we headed East to South Carolina for New Years where we enjoyed fun time with family, a wedding shower for Meredith & Andrew and a few days in magical Edisto!

We had a little Christmas our first night in South Carolina with my favorite holiday foods!

“Christmas dinner” our first night in South Carolina with my favorite holiday foods and a very festive centerpiece.

Loved being there to celebrate my best girlfriend!!  So happy for you Meredith & Andrew!

Loved being there to celebrate and hang with my best girlfriend!! So happy for you Meredith & Andrew!

Edisto

Edisto

aka paradise

aka paradise

Such wonderful trips home and special time with family!

Such wonderful trips home and special time with family!

Gender Reveal Party

One of the key reasons why Michael and I are so happy living in São Paulo is because we have such an amazing group of wonderful friends.  In fact, it’s almost weird how everyone we meet down here is just so great — we feel so blessed.  Since our move, we have never felt that more than we did on Saturday night when our friends came together to host one of the most beautiful, special and memorable nights of our lives for us.

Our fabulous hosts were Brad & Brett Coppens who were so generous to have the party in their gorgeous apartment (seriously – I am excited for you to catch a glimpse of it in these pictures because it is so dreamy) and Suzanna & Jeff Jones who were responsible for THE cupcakes, which turned out to be the hit of the night because they were not only beautiful, but also oh-so delicious.

Party Hosts!  Brett, Brad, Michael, me, Suzanna & Jeff

Party Hosts! Brett, Brad, Michael, me, Suzanna & Jeff

One of the first things I saw when we walked into the party was the amazing display of cupcakes which spelled out, “Is it a boy or girl?”  Suzanna had done an incredible job baking and she and Brett had set them up so beautifully – it really was stunning.

The beautiful line of cupcakes spelled out "Is it a boy or girl?"

The beautiful line of cupcakes spelled out “Is it a boy or girl?”

At the party there was tasty food, beautiful flowers, gorgeous views and fabulous company for everyone to enjoy.

DSC_0044DSC_0043DSC_0041Once everyone was all settled in, Brett & Brad had a little “interactive quiz” for me and the audience to test out all of the gender-prediction myths.  DSC_0057DSC_0068And here were the results: DSC_0100Next, the only thing left to do was find out the real answer about Baby Harper.  Earlier in the week, Michael and I had gone for an ultrasound where we asked the doctor not to tell us the gender, but instead to write it on a piece of paper which we immediately put into 2 envelopes — double sealed — so that neither Michael nor I could look.  Then, we trusted our secret with Suzanna and she baked the results into the cupcakes.  When the time came, we cut into the “?” cupcake.

DSC_0074DSC_0078DSC_0079DSC_0081DSC_0082DSC_0088We were so thrilled with the results but honestly Michael and I have agreed, I think we would have had the exact same reactions no matter what it had been.  It was just such a fun and special moment, full of emotions and adrenaline, and I cannot imagine it having been any more perfect.  

It was so special to have Michael’s parents there, but we Facetimed my parents and grandparents in so they were part of the action too.  You can actually see my mom’s face on my phone in the picture where we are kissing – ha!

HUGE thank you to Brett, Brad, Suzanna, Jeff and everyone who came to be there and surround us with such love and support.  It was a perfect night that we’ll never forget.  And WOOHOOO!  We’re having a BOY!!

PS: If you haven’t seen the videos yet, check them out — there are 2 videos linked on this post.

18 Weeks

18 weeksHow far along: 18 weeks & 1 day
Baby updates: Baby Harper is around 5 1/2 inches long – about the size of a bell pepper!  I’m pretty sure I’m starting to feel some movement but it’s hard to really know what’s what.  Oh, and we found out that Baby Harper is a little BOY!!
Mamma updates: Feeling pretty good these days — I’d say almost back to normal!
Things I miss: Still missing sushi and was tortured when we went out this weekend to one of the best sushi places in São Paulo.  That being said, it’s such a small thing compared to the blessing of getting to be pregnant.
Cravings: Mostly just things that I have always loved — fried rice stands out this week.
Weight: +5.5 was the highest number yet!  And definitely seeing my body change with it.
Best moments of the week: The past week was incredible.
We started the week on Monday with a great ultrasound.  It was our third one but it amazes me every time.  I think I basically hold my breath and squeeze Michael’s hand the entire time.
Later that day, Michael and I bought a car!  We lasted our first year in Brazil without a car, but it was definitely time to get one.  We have an itty-bitty parking space in our building which seriously limited our car options, but we settled on a Honda Fit and are very excited about it.  Plus, I drove it for the first time on Sunday and am happy to say I survived this crazy city!
Then, Thursday of last week, Michael’s mom, dad and family friend, Cindy McCain, came down for a weekend visit.  We had lots of fun showing them around town and going to all of our favorite spots.

Sushi dinner at Naga

Sushi dinner at Naga

Finally, the week culminated in one of the most unforgettable nights for us Saturday night at Baby Harper’s gender reveal party!  I will do a full post on it next, but our friends, Brad & Brett Coppens + Suzanna & Jeff Jones hosted an incredible party.  It was such a blast and Michael & I feel so beyond blessed and thankful to be surrounded by such amazing friends, love and support here.  And it was pretty fun to find out we’re having a little baby BOY!  🙂  We truly could not be happier.

Gender…?!

We are getting excited about finding out whether Baby Harper is a he or she this Saturday, so in preparation, we wanted to poll the crowds to see what the consensus is.  To help you make the best guess possible, here is all of the info:

1) Chinese Gender Calendar: predicts that we’re having a boy!
2) Heart-rate:  They say that over 140 bpm = girl and under 140 = boy.  Baby Harper has been measured 3 times, each one clocking in above 140 so that’s 1 strong point for girl.
3) Even/Odd: Legend has it that if the mother’s age and year of conception are the same (both even or both odd) then it is a girl, if they are different it is a boy. Well I was 25 and it was 2012…so that would mean boy.
4) Nausea and Sickness: They say that nausea and morning sickness indicates you’re having a girl.  Although I never actually threw up much, I have definitely felt these symptoms, so going with girl on this one.
5) Cravings: Cravings for sweets = girl and savory = boy.  I would say I’ve definitely had stronger cravings for savory so boy!
6) Complexion: They say that a boy will give you glowing, radient skin and a girl will contribute to skin problems and acne.  Mine has pretty much stayed the same so I’m calling this one a draw.mustache bow

All that being said, it’s really 50/50…so what do you think?  Leave us your votes!

Istanbul, Turkey

I was hoping to do a really fun post with really fun pictures on my trip to Istanbul last week. Unfortunately, my view for most of the week was of the inside of a conference room, so…not much to look at.  Thankfully I have been to Istanbul before and will be going back next year for our conference, so I wasn’t too disappointed.  That being said, I did walk around one night for a couple of hours, just in the area around my hotel, so here is the little I have to share.

View from dinner at the Hamdi Restaurant

View from dinner at the Hamdi Restaurant

My dinner at Karakoy Lokantasi.  And yes, you just eat the whole thing - head to tail, bones and all.

My dinner at Karakoy Lokantasi. And yes, you just eat the whole thing – head to tail, bones and all.

View from the hotel

View from our hotel — the Gradiva Hotel.

Walking around the area -- pedestrian street

Walking around the area — pedestrian street

Happened to walk by this beautiful church so I stopped in to check it out -- Sent Antuan Kilisesi

Happened to walk by this beautiful church so I stopped in to check it out — Sent Antuan Kilisesi

Sent Antuan Kilisesi

Sent Antuan Kilisesi

Turkish towels - my favorite!!

Turkish towels – my favorite!!

I wasn't looking for anything like this but ended up falling in love with this Suzani tapestry so I came home with it too!  Currently at the foot of our bed.

I wasn’t looking for anything like this but ended up falling in love with this Suzani tapestry so I came home with it too! Currently at the foot of our bed.

Istanbul is such an INCREDIBLE city — such a unique combination of old and new, east and west, continents merging…so much going on.  Excited for my trip back next year — I’ll definitely be bringing Michael and the little one!

Celebrations!

I’m not sure what you were doing last year for Valentine’s Day, but I can tell you that Michael and I were boarding a plane, moving to Brazil!  So this year, we were celebrating Valentine’s Day, Arizona’s 101st Birthday (yes, we always acknowledge this), and the amazing year that we have had in Brazil.

To celebrate, we cooked breakfast together in the morning.  Then, Michael sent me lots of little messages throughout the day that eventually told me about our evening plans — dinner at Parigi!  And, when we arrived at the restaurant, there was a bouquet of pink roses sitting at our table!  Michael had gone by earlier to pick out the table and drop off the flowers.  Sweet husband!

Happy girl

Happy girl

VDay at Parigi

VDay at Parigi

As you might gather from the name, Parigi is a mix of French and Italian food.  Michael ordered all French and I ordered all Italian and it was ALL delicious!  Parigi had a great atmosphere and I would totally recommend it for a nice date-night out.

As special as Valentine’s Day was, our real 1 year Braziversary was Feb. 15 so obviously more celebrating was in order.  Thankfully, one of our dear friends, Jana, was turning 30 and threw a really fun party!

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Happy Birthday Jana!

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It was so great to realize that we arrived here a year ago, hardly knowing anyone, and a year later we were surrounded by lots of amazing friends.  So much to be thankful for!

Now here’s to the next year being even better!