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Buzios!

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On Thursday, June 7th, Brazil celebrated the Corpus Christi holiday, so Michael had Thursday and Friday off from work which meant…time to plan a little adventure!  And an adventure we had.

We looked at a ton of places but ended up choosing Buzios, a small beach town settled a couple of hours outside of Rio.  Buzios is known to some as the “Gisele Bundchen” of beaches, and since it’s “winter” here in Brazil (a cool 79 degrees out today), the deals on the beaches are great.  Furthermore, Michael needed to work in Rio the week following the holiday, so all things considered we decided to fly into Rio, rent a car and drive to Buzios.

So it turned out that adventure #1 was the renting of the car.  Naturally all of the rental cars are stick shifts and I have never in my life attempted to drive a stick.  Michael learned a couple of years ago when we were in a similar situation, renting a car in Bariloche, Argentina, but it had been over two years since this one-time event.  We sort of forgot about this little detail, so as we were literally stepping into the car, we were simultaneously pulling up YouTube videos on “How to Drive a Stick Shift.”  This actually proved to be really helpful, however it did not prepare us for what laid ahead…

Michael miraculously remembered the feel and after a couple of laps around the rental car area, we hit the busy highways of Rio.  We drove for a couple hours on everything from jam-packed highways to unmarked cobblestone roads.  We frequently found ourselves on roads that did not show up on our iPhone GPS so we did our best to follow signs and literally, a compas — making sure we were going in the right direction.  Eventually we pulled up at our Buzios “home” — the Pousada Saint Germain.  We were exhausted so we checked in and immediately took a nap.  We woke up around 7:30pm, hungry and excited to check out a restaurant in town.  The only issues is that it was STORMING outside.  Storming is really a major understatement.  The roads had rivers flowing through them.  You could hardly see 5 feet in front of you.  We knew that the main downtown area with food and fun was a quick, 7 minute walk away, and we also knew that it would not be safe to drive in this weather.  Was it safe to walk?  In my opinion, not really.  In Michael’s opinion, absolutely.  I slooooowly got ready and suited up to weather the storm.  We tried to wait for the rain to die down a little but it looked like that may never happen, and we were hungry and knew that a sweet pizza place was just down the road.  So, eventually, there was nothing to do but head out.  We made our way to Capricciosa and arrived SOAKING WET from head to toe.  Thankfully they still served us, the pizza was hot and TASTY, and it was the perfect start to our trip.  🙂

The next day we had an amazing time exploring the town and hopping around to different beaches.  Buzios is full of cobblestone streets lined with fun bars and restaurants on the water in what was once an old fishing village turned major tourist destination.  The peninsula is absolutely full of charming pousadas — little bed & breakfast type inns.

Red sand!

Oh the car…

We stopped for lunch on the beach and enjoyed fresh fish and ice cold beers.

love the “Amar” carved into the cliff in the background

That evening we ventured downtown and had a fabulous seafood dinner, sitting outside, listening to live music from next door.

Day 2 was not so…carefree.  It started out nicely — we wanted to continue exploring the peninsula and so we hopped back in our ride and started touring around.  We stopped off at this amazing spot for a fresh squeezed OJ,
and then we got more adventurous.  Most of the roads we were driving on were not showing up on the GPS so we just felt our way around.  We could never tell if the road we were heading down was going to lead us to an amazing view or a dead end so it made for some interesting situations.  It was a little tricky too because most of the roads were these narrow cobblestone paths, up and down hills, and some of the roads were pretty broken up.  As we were trying to make our way back to town, we found ourselves getting lost in a maze of random roads.  Each one seemed unnavigable and we were getting a little nervous about making it home.  And then we came upon a major roadblock.  The road ahead was flooded and blocked with fallen trees and debris.  So, we tried to turn around.  But the road was so narrow and it was now really raining and the reverse was giving Michael a hard time and somehow we ended up driving into the bushes.  We were on a slope and so we just could NOT get the car to go backwards.  At one point, I was in the driver’s seat, Michael was outside in the bushes trying to push the car…but nothing was helping.  Then – praise God – Michael figured out how to move us backwards.  We moved back and then realized that it would be almost impossible to for us to turn around because right in the middle of the road was a giant hole.  Now it was my turn to get out in the rain and act as a guide while Michael maneuvered the car back and forth, back and forth again, until we felt like we could drive over the hole without getting trapped by it.

Just before the victory drive over the hole! Only took us about an hour to get to this point…

And finally, we prevailed!  Free at last, we drove home, parked, and got OUT of that car – not to return again until we were leaving Buzios the next day.

That evening we WALKED downtown to eat crepes and catch a “friendly” soccer match between Argentina and Brazil.  Countries play these “friendly” matches in preparation for the World Cup — although everyone here knows there is no such thing as a friendly soccer match between Argentina and Brazil.  🙂  Although Brazil couldn’t pull out the win, it was really fun watching the game with the a big group.

Go Brazil! (Although I think Michael was secretly cheering for Argentina)

Later in the evening we headed back downtown for another lovely dinner on charming cobblestone streets.

On Sunday we drove back to Rio and finished off the trip with a great sushi dinner at Sushi Leblon.
Such fun exploring this beautiful country!

This & That

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It’s great to be back in SP.  Michael and I are really enjoying it more and more all the time.  We are having a lot of fun getting to know our neighborhood, hanging out with friends and planning excursions around Brazil.  Below is quick look at some of what we’ve been up to over the past month, but first, a quick

***Update*** Our shipment arrives TOMORROW.  5 months ago TO THE DAY that the movers showed up in San Francisco to pack us up.  We hardly remember what we own but are EXCITED to be able to really unpack, settle, and stop living out of boxes and suitcases.  We still have a couple little things to do around our apartment, but I cannot wait to get the shipment!!  Fingers crossed that everything made it OK!!

Joe turned 33! Parabéns!

Double date w/ Joe & Tom.  🙂

Vaca Veia

In Brazil, thumbs up!

Love spending days at our park…

Welcome home flowers from my sweet husband

Saturday mornings = grocery shopping at our street market. 1 block from our apartment.

mmmm spices

Fun night out with friends

Brazil has some gooood pizza.

Sushi on May 31 – celebrating that 1 year ago Michael was visiting Brazil, officially requesting to be transferred. Way to make it happen babe!

Pack It Up, Pack It In

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Let me begin
by saying Praise the Lord, I THINK that last Monday was the last time that Michael and I will have to pack up our stuff and move to a new location.  Although we have had our new apartment since April, we had been staying in our temporary, furnished apartment so that we could better host Michael’s family during their visit.   By 8pm on Monday, April 30th however, we had to be OUT of there, so we spent the days after his family left in a frenzy running around trying to buy appliances, rent furniture and move our stuff over to our new place.  (Thankfully we have some incredible friends here who pitched in and made the move a breeze!)

Buying appliances was kind of an interesting experience.  I searched all of the stores online (Extra, Casa Biaha, Ponto Frio, Carre Four…) and made a list of the ideal appliances and their lowest prices online.  It’s important to do your research, but it’s best to buy in person so that you can negotiate.  So, we took my list to our nearby Ponto Frio to try our luck.  The selection is more limited in stores but they had enough to work with, so we ended up buying our fridge, stove, dishwasher and washing machine there and I think we netted out getting about 15% off the lowest online prices!  Michael was a star negotiator, 100% in Portuguese.  At this point, all of our appliances have been delivered but the fridge is the only thing that’s functional since the manufacturers have to come actually install the other items.  We think we’ll have the stove and dishwasher running later today and the washing machine…sometime soon thereafter.  We hope.

Amazingly, the furniture rental turned out to be pretty simple.  We heard of two companies to rent from – John Richards and Interiors – and went with John Richards since Michael has a coworker who is renting with them and had a positive experience.  We selected the items we needed online and on Monday afternoon it was all delivered.  In an effort to be economical, we only rented dishes and cooking supplies, sheets, towels, a bed, sofa and a coffee table.  So, right now our apartment is pretty empty.  We have no TV, no chairs, no table, no dressers…and as of right now, we still have no Internet!  They were supposed to install it last Saturday but there was some strange issue with the cables and now the Internet company is in touch with our landlord and we’re hoping it gets solved by Monday.  Also, we still have a little more work to do to the apartment as we need to buy some kitchen cabinets, we’re having some closets redone, etc.

Although a little unusual, we are making the most of our current situation by eating lots of cereal, ice cream and PB&Js (your options are limited when you only have a fridge!), playing card games and speed boggle, and having contests to see who can slide the farthest in their socks across our floors.  If you have on the right socks you can get pretty far.  🙂  Of course we are looking forward to having a stove and furniture and TV and Internet…but for now we’re having fun.

Oh, and an update on our stuff: our sea shipment landed in Brazil April 26th and is going through the customs process – estimated to clear by June 1!  This is great news for us and means that we may only be renting furniture for the month of May and soon we’ll see our things again and get to really settle in here.  Oh to settle in…

The Harpers Hit Brazil

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A couple of weeks ago, the Harpers descended on Brazil and in true Harper fashion, we packed a LOT in.  There is no way to do their visit justice in a blog post, but I’ll do my best to hit the highlights.

Pre-visit: Michael, Joe and I flew to Rio on Saturday, the 14th, the day before the Harpers started arriving to check everything out and be sure we got some solid beach-time in.  We had a great day and as we were leaving the beach we spotted some good ole’ Clemson Tiger fans so we grabbed them for a quick pic.  It turns out the family lives a couple of blocks from the beach and is there for a couple of years with Proctor and Gamble.  Sounds like a pretty sweet deal.

Ipanema beach with fellow TIGER FANS!! This one’s for you, Papa! 🙂

Days 1 – 3: Harpers arrived in Rio.  We stayed at the amazing Santa Teresa Hotel and enjoyed exploring the neighborhood of Santa Teresa as well as Ipanema and Copacabana.  Of course, we also toured the Christ the Redeemer statue and climbed to the top of Pão de Açúcar.  Well, we rode the gondola.  Incredible views.  While in Rio, Michael and I celebrated our 2 year anniversary over a fantastic dinner at Aprazivel – with the whole family, of course.  🙂

Hanging out in our favorite spot — the amazing Santa Teresa Hotel bar

View of Santa Teresa from the hotel

Walking around the cute little town — with Joe and his new buddy

The boys in front of the Dois Irmãos (Two Brothers) Mountains

View on our way up to the top of Pão de Açúcar

Sunset view from the top

Day 4 we headed to São Paulo and arrived just in time to tour our apartments, our neighborhood park and have an amazing Brazilian dinner at one of our favorite spots, Espírito Santo, just a few blocks from our new apartment.

Dinner at Espirito Santo! Our favorite neighborhood spot.

Day 5 included tours of both Joe’s and Michael’s offices, fabulous lunch at Dalva e Dito, shopping on Oscar Freire AND Sharon’s miraculous finding of her “mother-of-the-bride” dress for Christy’s wedding!  Christy & TJ – it made us feel like you guys were really with us in spirit.  We capped off the night with incredible views of the city and great caipirinhas at Hotel Unique.

Dalva e Dito

Lise, how many pairs did you take back with you?  🙂

Day 6 we walked around our neighborhoods, checked out a Brazilian art museum, and had an amazing sushi dinner at Nagayama followed by late night live Bossa Nova music and cocktails at the Fasano.
Day 7 was a Saturday so in the morning we checked out the Mercadão and sampled lots of exotic fruits.  Then we headed to Villa Madelena for a “street-art” / graffiti tour followed by live Samba music and great food at Bar Samba!  Then, the Harpers packed their bags and headed for the airport.

Vila Madalena

We hated saying, “Goodbye,” but the sadness was eased a little because Shannon stayed a few extra days with us!  So the next day Shannon, Michael, Joe and I took a little day trip to Embu Das Artes to check out the cute little artisan town.  Then, Shannon and I spent the next few days having lots of adventures around São Paulo from biking in Parque Ibirapuera to a crazy day in Liberdade (Sao Paulo’s “Japan Town”).

Street Fair – Embu Das Artes

Biking in the park. Sorry that I am super awkward with anything sports-related. I can’t help it!

Liberdade. Oh Shan, what a day this was…. 😉

Come back soon!!

Cafe Zim misses you guys! And so do we!

Get Real.

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OK.  So, a lot of people have written me saying something along the lines of, “I love your blog, it’s great to keep up with what you guys are doing.  But HONESTLY…how are you REALLY doing with it all??  How do you really like it?  How do you really feel?”

The truth may surprise you, but we REALLY LIKE IT.  Michael and I are really happy and we are really happy HERE.

To be honest, I didn’t know how I would like living in Brazil, I mean, I had never been here until we stepped off the plane almost 2 months ago.  I had never spoken Portuguese.  I didn’t have a job lined up.  With the exception of Michael’s brother, Joe, I didn’t know anyone.  So in most ways it felt like a pretty big leap of faith to move here.  But it was a carefully contemplated and thoroughly prayed over leap.  And while I didn’t exactly know what I was getting myself into, I knew that I didn’t know.  What I mean is that I knew that what laid ahead was an adventure.  I knew that I would need to be flexible, patient and not too serious.  I knew that simple things would suddenly become difficult.  I knew that I was leaving my career behind and that I would feel dependent on Michael in a new way (that is not necessarily a fun way).  I knew that I would feel lonely and miss my friends and family…  So although I didn’t know WHAT to expect, I think I knew HOW to expect it.

And it turns out that while simple things ARE difficult and I AM dependent on Michael, while I DON’T have a career here and I DO miss my family and friends…it has actually been fun.  No, I should say it IS fun.  We are really enjoying the day-to-day and we KNOW that this is the right place for us right now.  Michael and I are constantly saying to each other that we can’t believe we are really here, doing this.  I mean, I get to be on this great adventure in a really cool city with my best friend.  We have met a ton of awesome people – expats and Brazilians.  Honestly, I feel incredibly LUCKY that Michael is working so hard to provide us with this amazing experience.  And I know that he feels lucky too, that I am supporting him in as he goes after his dreams.  Maybe I expected it to be harder than it is, living here.  And there are definitely moments when it’s difficult.  But I think that’s more just LIFE than Brazil.  I mean come on, life is just tough sometimes, right??

I will say that I have cried ONE TIME since we landed in Brazil.  Only once, but it was a big one.  It was about a week after we had moved here, Michael had started working, and I felt sadness about the “loss” of my career and confusion about my place here.  I think that at this age and especially in big cities, we tend to place a lot of value on being BUSY all of the time.  It makes us feel important.  And the reality is that I’m just not that busy here. I have FREE TIME.  And free time might sound nice, but I bet if a lot of you had free time for a month straight, you might feel a little insecure.  A little like, “What the eff am I doing?”  So I was feeling that way.  But, it has truly been a blessing to me.  It revealed to me that I was finding some of my value in places that were neither real nor lasting versus in Christ.  A friend once told me that business [of activity] is sometimes a mask for laziness of mind and spirit.  I have definitely been guilty of that and I feel like over the past few months God has been sloooowing me down.  Not just for the sake of slowing down and stepping back.  But stepping back in order to step TOWARD Him.  After all, that is what we see Jesus doing throughout His life.  Taking time to withdraw not just to “get away” but to get closer to God.  And so this is what I have been learning lately, or trying to learn.

Clearly I do not mean that working or being busy are negative things.  (In fact this may be the busiest time in Michael’s career.)  I think it’s normal for me to feel sad about not being able to continue my career AND I feel confident that over time I will find my place here more and more.  I’m just saying that right now, for me, this time has been a blessing and God is using it to grow me in new ways.  To grow me in my love for Him, my trust in Him, and my security in His promises.  Which makes me all the more thankful to be here, and all the more certain that this is right.

So.  THAT is the real deal. 

30 months

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Michael and me in our new apartment! Holding the keys

Praise the Lord, today Michael and I celebrated the SIGNING of our apartment lease.  Our 30 MONTH lease.  Which is totally normal here.  And maybe 30 months doesn’t sound so long to most people, but for a girl on her 15th or so move, it is a serious COMMITMENT.   But it’s a good commitment.  So, in light of this momentous occasion, I thought I would take this opportunity to fill you in on what it’s like to rent an apartment here in São Paulo.

First of all, it’s EXPEN$IVE.  We feel like we got a great deal on our place but I’d say real estate here is comprable to San Francisco or New York.  Some people will say it’s more, some will say it’s less, but all in all I think the rental market is pretty similar.  Although in São Paulo, when you are calculating your monthly cost, you have to remember to factor in 1) Rent, 2) Condominium Fees, and 3) Taxes.  Instead of the landlord taking everything into account and giving you one bill, it is the renter’s responsibility to cover all of the costs.  You will quickly see that this is a common theme.

So secondly, when you rent in São Paulo, you are usually renting a place BARE BONES.  I’m talking no appliances, no light fixtures, sometimes no toilet seats or shower heads.  It is NORMAL for there to be random wires sticking out everywhere.  Renters here purchase their own appliances / fixtures and TAKE THEM WITH THEM when they leave.  This translates into being a major pain that ADDS to the cost of renting.  Our place LUCKILY had light fixtures and faucets, but we will definitely need to purchase appliances.  A quick note on this — appliances (and basically EVERYTHING else that one might need to buy in Brazil) are about about twice the price that they are in the US.  I can’t get into this right now (as it deserves to be it’s own post) but in the meantime I will link to THIS POST by my friends, the Joneses, on cost-of-living here.  BOOOO.

OK so next up about apartments in Brazil… the built-ins/small bedrooms.  All of the apartments that we looked at had TINY bedrooms.  This is influenced by the fact that all bedrooms have these random built-in closets which eliminates the need for Brazilians to put much furniture in their bedrooms.  Sounds OK but in my opinion the closets are usually really unattractive, poor quality, AND hello, we are bringing down a ton of bedroom furniture that will most certainly NOT fit in our bedroom.  It’s OK though.  We have a plan to re-do the built-ins and we’ll squeeze some of our furniture in the second bedroom. (Hear that friends??  Second bedroom = room for you to stay when you come VISIT!!!)

Another oddity that we had to get used to here is the inclusion of a Maid’s room/bathroom and a service entrance for each apartment.  This is really amazing to me for a few reasons.  First of all, we were not looking at large apartments.  These are small, compact, 2 bedroom places.  And yet it is such the cultural norm to have hired help (that often lives with you) to the point that even in these small apartments, there is still a designated (albeit TINY) room and bathroom for the maid.  The rooms seem hardly the size of a double mattress and the bathrooms are like those on an airplane, but nonetheless, there they are.  Usually they are off the laundry room which is off the kitchen.  Which leads me to the point that most kitchens here are more closed off and separated from the rest of the apartment.  The tradition is for the Empregada (maid) to work in the kitchen/laundry area so you would want to be able to close it off.  This is a bit sad to us as our place in San Francisco was totally open from the kitchen to the living & dining area and we loved that!  Oh well.  And, as I mentioned, there is always a separate “service entrance” that opens into the kitchen whereas the “main entrance” usually opens into the living area.  All a bit ODD to me.

So, when will we move in?  Well, this is a little tricky because we still haven’t gotten any of our stuff yet.  Supposedly our air shipment landed in Brazil on March 30th and is going through customs and our sea shipment is set to arrive in Brazil April 26th, but we expect 2 months of customs nonsense after it arrives so…we’ll see when we get it.  Right now our plan is to do a little work on the apartment and get our appliances this month so that we can move in May 1st, and we’ll just be renting furniture until we can get our stuff.  At this stage in our lives flexibility and a sense of humor are the key to happiness.  And tonight, we’re just happy that we found a place that we can commit to for the next 30 months.

At the Copa…

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Last week I took my first trip to the amazing city of Rio de Janeiro.  Michael’s law firm was throwing a couple of big parties to announce the opening of their new office here in São Paulo, and last Thursday’s party was in Rio.  And not just in Rio, but at THE Copacabana Palace.

At the Copa, Copacabana

So even though Michael and I are going back to Rio in 2 weeks (when his family visits!!!), we couldn’t pass up the opportunity for me to join him on this trip as well.  It’s just not everyday that you get to stay at the Copacabana, right??

Michael was actually called to Rio on some “emergency” work meetings ahead of time and flew there last Monday, so Thursday morning I met up with his coworkers in São Paulo and flew with them to Rio for the party that night.  It was really interesting meeting people from his firm because partners from Jones Day offices all over the world (Germany, Spain, Mexico, Singapore, DC, San Francisco, Dallas, an Argentine native who is practicing in Atlanta, and obviously Brazil) came to celebrate the opening of the São Paulo office.  Lots of languages being spoken!  But everyone was incredibly nice.

Speaking of incredibly nice, the party that they threw was awesome!  I wish I had more photos but for some reason I only took a picture of the Caipirinha station at the bar.  Although it was pretty impressive.  The bartender made me the best Caipirinha I’ve had yet…

Thursday night at the office opening party -- the amazing Caipirinha station

During his week in Rio, Michael ended up having to work around the clock (I’m talking, 18 hour days the entire week) but I didn’t let that stop me.  Friday morning I headed off on a little tour with the other Jones Day folks and the first stop was the Christ the Redeemer statue.  The fog was seriously San Francisco style so we couldn’t see much of the city below, but the statue was pretty stunning in itself.

Christ the Redeemer statue -- 130 feet tall, 98 feet across

Next we stopped for lunch at an amazing spot in Santa Teresa called Aprazivel.  It was such a unique atmosphere – reminded me of eating in a tree house (albeit a really nice tree house!).  Here is a quick virtual tour of the place.

Restaurante Aprazivel

Appetizer: Hearts of palm -- in the palm!

I left the tour early to take care of a couple of travel logistics and quickly found my way to the pool.

Copacabana Poolside

And the remainder of the trip was a lot like that.  At least for me.  Someone else was working the whole time…

The beaches of Rio

Pina Colada + Strawberry Daiquiri = Amazing. Seriously.

Rio Beaches

By Sunday, Michael was exhausted and ready to take off.  I’m hopeful that our next trip we’ll see more of the beach, more of Rio and more of each other.  But, I can’t complain about my first trip.

Driving to the airport. Be back soon, Rio!