Baby Shower in Columbia, SC

Last week my mom’s dear friend, Jane Suggs, and my cousin, Dolores Long, threw a beautiful baby shower for Baby Harper and me.  Jane hosted the shower in her gorgeous home and they served a delicious dinner to a group of about 30 ladies which included a mix of family and friends from across the state.  I was so touched by everyone who came and the generosity and love of our friends and family.  It’s such a blessing to be so strongly supported during a time like this.

The amazing set-up and decor including the beautifully done diaper cake.DSC_0002DSC_0013DSC_0003DSC_0004

My sweet, pretty mama!  I hope I’m like her!DSC_0026Friends & family!DSC_0035DSC_0029DSC_0023DSC_0030DSC_0041DSC_0036 I swear Amanda gets prettier AND sweeter every time I see her. DSC_0025

Jane giving the loveliest toast and blessing. DSC_0033Time for gifts!  I was thankful to have my precious cousin Margaret beside me, helping me get through them all!

My grandmother, Nan, crocheted the edges of this sweet blanket.DSC_0061

Absolutely in love with the blanket, sweater and booties that my Aunt Sheryl knit!

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So excited for our diaper bag!DSC_0055

Huge thank you to my shower hostesses, Dolores and Jane!  It was such a gorgeous and special night and a memory that I will treasure! DSC_0080

23 Weeks

23 WeeksHow far along: 23 weeks & 1 day
Baby updates: Baby Harper is weighing over 1 pound now and is around 11 inches long — the length of my Easter basket! He’s moving around a lot and both my mom and Michael have gotten to feel him.
Mamma updates: I’m still feeling great these days, just adjusting to how my body is changing.  It’s weird because I feel so normal that I forget how different I look until I walk by a mirror or see myself in pictures.
Things I miss: Missing a nice glass of Sauvignon Blanc this week.
Cravings: Oreo cookie ice cream sandwiches.  They’re amazing.  And an otherwise very healthy appetite.
Weight: +11.5.  Based on my BMI, I’m supposed to gain around 35 lbs during pregnancy (yikes!).  So with 17 weeks to go, I think I’m basically on track.  At this point I’m wearing maternity jeans/tights with a mix of maternity and regular tops.  Most of my old dresses “fit,” however whether they look right or not really depends on the cut of the dress.  According to my sweet husband, I had “doubled in size” over the past two weeks that we were apart.  Juuuuuuust what I wanted to hear.  🙂
Best moments of the week:  So many blessings this week!
First, my mom’s dear friend, Jane Suggs, and my cousin, Dolores Long, threw me a baby shower on Tuesday night.  More to come on this special night soon!DSC_0001 Next, it was so wonderful having Michael come visit for Easter.  We got to do a lot of shopping for our little guy, go to Good Friday service with my grandparents, have a little date, and celebrate Easter with my family.  So many sweet moments.  We even got an extra day together when his original flight back was canceled, but he left this evening and I’ll be seeing him next Tuesday in DC.  Life is just better together. DSC_0138

Surprise Shower for Baby Harper!

As I was getting ready for my baby shower tonight, I realized that I still hadn’t posted on the surprise baby shower that was thrown for me in Charleston!  So, before I head off tonight I wanted to at least post some pictures.

The story, as it was told to me, was that my dear friends Meredith (who was getting married in Charleston) and Elizabeth were talking, when Meredith said that it was a shame that she wouldn’t be able to celebrate me while I was pregnant, as the only time we knew that we would be around each other was her wedding weekend.  Elizabeth’s response was, “Well, if you want to do it and can find an hour or so, I’ll make it happen.”  (If you know her, then you know this is a very Elizabeth response.)  Meredith found about an hour and a half in between her rehearsal and rehearsal dinner (seriously) and said that they could do it at her parent’s house.  So, Elizabeth reached out to my mom and started coordinating everything.  My mom told them that if they wanted to do it, then it would have to be a surprise because there is no way I would agree to having a baby shower on Meredith’s wedding weekend (and she was absolutely right).  However, they were determined so they kept it a surprise, and on Friday March 15, Elizabeth showed up to Meredith’s house while we were all at the rehearsal and started setting up the amazing display of cupcakes, food and snacks, the whole lemonade set-up with mason jars & straws, the banner, and a copy of “Oh the places you’ll go” that all of the party guests signed!  She is kind of amazing.

When I walked in I was not only shocked but also totally confused, as having a baby shower was clearly the last thing on my mind.  I mean, here I am, Meredith’s Matron of Honor, trying to totally focus all of my energy and attention on her as we are coming home from a wonderful wedding rehearsal, about to rest and then get ready for the rehearsal dinner that night, and I walk into a room full of my family and friends and a banner that says, “Baby Boy Harper!”  It was definitely a shock.

OK – enough back-story.  Here are some pictures!

"Oh the places you'll go" adorable / delicious cupcakes!

“Oh the places you’ll go” adorable / delicious cupcakes!

Beautiful and yummy food!

Beautiful and yummy food!

Lemonade in mason jars with cute straws!

Lemonade in mason jars with cute straws!

Mary Carol Fortune.  What a little cutie.

Mary Carol Fortune. What a little cutie.

Walking in - totally confused.

Walking in – totally surprised and confused.

My amazing friends assuring me that it was in fact a surprise shower for Baby H!

My amazing friends assuring me that it was in fact a surprise shower for Baby H!

Sweet Augusta Clare entertaining the crowd.

Sweet Augusta Clare entertaining the crowd.

H burp cloth sent all the way from Kelli K Mayfield!

H burp cloth sent all the way from Kelli K Mayfield!

Baby Harper getting his first Clemson gear from Nanny & Papa Fincher

Baby Harper getting his first Clemson gear from Nanny & Papa Fincher

Michael calling in on Facetime, maybe even more confused than I was when I first walked in.

Michael called on Facetime and I think he may have been even more confused than I was when I first walked in.

Showing Michael the beautiful onesie that his sweet mama had sent for the occasion.

Showing Michael the beautiful onesie that his sweet mama had sent for the occasion.

Daddy!

Daddy!

Wofford girls!

Wofford girls!

Hudson cousins!

Hudson cousins!

It was such a blast, and honestly I still can’t believe it happened.  Thank you to everyone who came out to be there, to Meredith and her mom, Susan, for being so incredibly generous and hospitable with you home and you precious time during a weekend that was so special, and a huge thank you to Elizabeth for all that you did and for making it happen!  I can’t believe how blessed I am to have such kind and caring friends.  Amazing!!

22 Weeks

22 weeksHow far along: 22 weeks & 1 day
Baby updates: Baby Harper is weighing about 1 pound and is around 10 inches long – the size of a papaya or a bag of oreos!  He’s definitely an active little guy – I’m feeling him move around all the time these days which is super weird but fun.  It kind of makes me feel like I have a little pal with me all the time.  🙂
Mamma updates: I’m so thankful that I’ve really been feeling great lately.  I still need to get a lot of sleep at night but during the day I feel 100%.
Things I miss: Missing my HUSBAND right now, as I am in the US and he is working hard back at home in São Paulo.  Thankfully he’s coming to visit for Easter weekend and arrives on Thursday.  It can’t get here soon enough.
Cravings: Macaroni & cheese.
Weight: +9.5.  I’ve officially broken into my maternity jeans and they’re just so comfortable, I’m not sure that I’m going to go back…
Best moments of the week:  It has been a fantastic week and I’m really grateful for this opportunity to be home and spend time with family and friends.

21 Weeks

Week 21How far along: 21 weeks & 1 day
Baby updates: Baby Harper is around 9 inches long – about the size of a spaghetti squash or a large carrot – and I’m definitely feeling him move around more!
Mamma updates: Still getting used to how my body is changing (I mean, having a spaghetti squash in there is no small thing!) but feeling great.
Things I miss: During a week full of celebrations, it would have been nice to have a celebratory glass or two of champagne.  🙂
Cravings: Cereal and cake.
Weight: +9.  I think I’m basically on track now so thankful for that.
Best moments of the week: Such an incredible past week it’s hard to sum it up!
It started with my amazing birthday celebrations!
Then, I flew home to South Carolina and went straight to Charleston to celebrate the wedding of my best girlfriend Meredith to her best friend, Andrew, and it was just a magical weekend.  I will do a full post on it soon, but it was totally picture perfect.

Andrew & Meredith.  Could they be any cuter?

Andrew & Meredith. Could they be any cuter?

Oh, and did I mention that while we were in Charleston to celebrate Meredith, my girlfriends threw me a surprise baby shower?!  More on this to come, but seriously. Ridiculous / amazing.DSC_0021

Sugar & Sparkle: Turning 26

My friend Emily sent me the sweetest birthday card, wishing me a day full of sugar and sparkle, and I felt that it was just the perfect way to describe what was a wonderful birthday.

If it was up to me, I’d probably never tell anyone that it was my birthday and would just continue on with daily life, however my husband is big into birthdays and always makes sure that I am fully celebrated, and this year was no exception.

Although my birthday was on Tuesday, it all started on Sunday when Michael threw me a little surprise birthday lunch.  We had guests in town so we had been planning on going to lunch with them that afternoon, so I wasn’t suspicions of anything until we walked into the restaurant and I saw a table full of our friends saying “Happy Birthday!”  Since I’m going to be away from São Paulo for the next few weeks, it was especially fun getting to see everyone one last time.  Thanks to everyone who came out for it!  So fun!IMG_1952

Then, since I am having a short week here, Michael decided to go ahead and send the most enormous bouquet of flowers to my office on Monday so that I would be able to enjoy them a little longer.  They may have been slightly over-the-top 🙂 but they made my day and as I walked home from work with them, people on the street offered me “parabens” (“congratulations”).DSC_0112

On Tuesday, my birthday, I was woken up with a delicious breakfast in bed — smoothie, coffee and a freshly baked bacon/egg/cheese/pao de queijo souffle of sorts.  Yum!  Michael had also written me the sweetest card that talked about how, in one sense, this was my last birthday just the two of us, and in another, it was my first birthday as the three of us, so he wanted it to be special.  Then he gave me a beautiful pair of diamond earrings!!  He had worked with our jeweler in the US and had his parents bring them down for him when they visited last month.  Not only do I absolutely love the earrings – obviously – but I am always amazed at how thoughtful he is and how he always goes the extra mile to surprise me and make me feel special.IMG_1959

Tuesday afternoon, Michael met me for lunch at a fun, tasty French restaurant, L’amitié, where he had called in advance to reserve the best table.IMG_1968When I got back to the office, my sweet coworkers had a cake for me and all sang the fun Brazilian version of “Happy Birthday to You” which is much more fun and animated than the US version.  Then that evening, Michael brought home the veggie sushi that I had been craving and we sat on the couch and watched the Bachelor, After the Final Rose.  We had planned to watch the finale but for some reason it hadn’t come onto iTunes yet and I just couldn’t wait, so we went straight into After the Final Rose.  (Plus, now I have an hour and a half of solid entertainment for my flight home tonight.  Even knowing the ending, I will still be on the edge of my seat.)

Anyway, it was the perfect day and the perfect week and I just feel so incredibly blessed to have a husband who is beyond perfect for me.  Michael – thank you for making me feel so celebrated!!  Also, thanks to all of my friends and family for the sweet, thoughtful cards, emails and messages.  So far, 26 seems pretty awesome.