Farewell San Francisco…

It makes me sad just writing the title of this post, but alas, Michael and I have packed our bags and said “Farewell” to the beautiful City by the Bay.

It was a crazy final week in San Francisco.  After ringing in the New Year, we had lots of tasks to accomplish, and on Tuesday, somewhere between running errands and packing things up I had my first minor freak-out session.  Michael was at work so I was at home by myself and it was like all of the sudden I realized what we were doing – that we were leaving behind my favorite city that I’ve ever lived in, leaving our little apartment where we began our married life, saying “goodbye” to amazing friends that are once-in-a-lifetime kind of friends, and moving to a country to which I have never been, where they speak a language that I don’t speak, where who knows if I’ll be able to get a real job…it was all a little overwhelming!  But I think those are normal feelings to feel, normal thoughts to be having, right???  Michael was great – so patient with me and assured me that I was completely valid in feeling those things and he reminded me that we would be doing this move together – every step of the way.  So, what else do you do but keep moving forward??

We had a long day Wednesday getting ready for the movers to arrive on Thursday so we treated ourselves to a quick dinner out to…our favorite Brazilian restaurant, Canto do Brasil!  It was a fun little date and Michael did all of the ordering in Portuguese.

At Canto do Brasil (looking a little grimy from working all day)

Thursday morning the movers showed up around 9am and got after it.  I’ll write more later about how we are actually moving and shipping everything but suffice it to say that I was very thankful not to have to pack it all myself.  Thursday night was our last night in our apartment so Michael and I popped a bottle of champagne and toasted our wonderful, sweet, 751 sq. ft., first home together.

To an amazing first 1 year and 9 months of marriage in Apartment 505! 🙂

That night we grabbed a drink with our dear friend Leah at an old favorite, local spot, District, for a glass of wine and a goodbye.

Friday morning Michael and I ran a couple of last minute errands.  Our first-stop was the Police Station to get a letter of good-conduct that we will need to pick up our visas.  Next we dropped off a load at Goodwill before heading back home as the movers returned to finish packing us up.  Things moved quickly and I basically just tried to stay out of their way as all of our belongings made their way into 133 brown boxes…

Our boxes lined the hallways.

The movers finished up around 1pm and Michael and I headed straight to our favorite local lunch/brunch spot, Serpentine.  (If you’re in SF and you’ve never been – check it out!)  It was just as good as always and then we were off to finish some last minute errands before we grabbed our bags and headed to the hotel.  We stayed at the fabulous Hotel Drisco and appreciated even more our incredible view of the city.

Friday night Michael and I got dinner nearby at Nopalito with our very dear friends Mike & Moira and Troy & Christie.  Food was amazing and the company was perfect.

Last meal in SF at Nopalito with the crew. We miss you guys already!!

Then we grabbed drinks at Lion Pub and eventually said our goodbyes.  It is always hard to leave friends but I do think there is something a little less-sad when leaving true, close friends, as you know they will always be in your life.

So, on Saturday morning it was with sad yet thankful and excited hearts that we said goodbye to San Francisco.

(Right now we’re in Phoenix as we await our visa confirmation but more on all that soon!!)

Welcome to 2012!

Michael and I returned to San Francisco for one final week to get moved out of our apartment and to kick off the new year with some of our dearest friends.

We started the night off with appetizers and mint juleps at Christie & Troy’s apartment.  It was great to see Christie since she has been traveling the world for Facebook lately and we’ve missed her around the city.

After some quality catch-up time with the Bienemanns, we cabbed over to La Mar on the Embarcadero to meet up with the rest of the crew for the New Years spectacular.  The night was filled with fabulous ceviche, pisco sours, and other Peruvian specialties, a plethora of New Years toasts that all were required by Mike Saign to give excited to give, an incredible fireworks show over the water, a less incredible DJ, and of course, lots of laughs and memories.  Here is a quick look at our evening…

Starting off the night toasting Pisco Sours - w/ Christie!

Across the table -- Reed, Michael, Troy -- the night still so young

Troy & Mike!

Giving the toast of my life

The other end of the table... Elliot, Sheila, Cope

Heading outside to count down

Mike & Moira -- "All you need is love"

The first photo of 2012!!! With the love of my life. 🙂

Happy 2012 everyone!  It’s sure to be an amazing year!!

A Harper Family Christmas

So, I’m a little behind on posting so bear with me as I do Christmas first then follow up with New Years (Happy 2012 everyone!).  That being said, Christmas is absolutely one of my favorite holidays.  I love the meaning, the smells, the celebration, the food, the fun and of course, spending it with family.  This year Michael and I celebrated Christmas with his family in Arizona.  The Harpers are an incredible family and have loads of fun traditions.  Here is a look at what we’ve been up to the past week…

1) Christmas Eve:  Christmas Eve started with a beautiful outdoor mass at 5pm (only in Arizona can you do an outdoor mass on Christmas Eve!).  Then, the Christmas Eve tradition is to have a big dinner with their long-time friends and neighbors, the Griego family.  The Harpers and Griegos alternate who hosts on Christmas Eve, and this year it was the Harpers’ turn.

The entire Harper/Griego clan

The night starts with drinks and appetizers

Michael & Joe -- resident mixologists

Next up is dinner.  To fit everyone, the Harpers rented a tent to put out on their patio with the table and chairs all around.

The beautiful tented table area! Set with the famous oyster soup.

The meal always starts with oyster soup that everyone complains about (but I think it’s good!), followed by tamales, enchiladas and salad.  Dessert is rice pudding and there are always hidden whole almonds in some of the bowls. Whoever finds an almond gets to open a gift, however these “gifts” are always a little… unique.  🙂  This year there were almonds in all of the kid’s bowls!

After dinner the gambling commences with the legendary dice game!  🙂  The great thing about this is that the Harpers and Griegos supply the money, so for all of the kids, it’s pure fun.  This year Michael’s dad Ollie really mixed things up by bringing out the $2 bills!  It was an exciting game but in the end, Kelly Griego came out on top this year!  Finally, the hats always make an appearance before the night is over.

All the "kids"

2.) Presents!  Since we were leaving early the next morning to head to Sedona, we decided to open gifts before bed on Christmas Eve.  One of the great traditions for gifts is that each Harper sibling (spouses and fiances included) are assigned a Secret Santa.  This year Joe was assigned to me which is great luck because Joe is known for being a fantastic Secret Santa.  He totally delivered this year by getting me an awesome, hot pink Lulu Lemon zippie and my very own yoga mat!  Thanks Joe!

Joe is a great Secret Santa!

Shannon (in her new fur vest), Lise and Mocha during gifts

The other major highlight of the night was when Christy and TJ (newly engaged!) asked all of the siblings to be in their wedding!  I will be a bridesmaid – yay!!!!!  Can’t wait to celebrate with them!

I'm a bridesmaid! Lise & Shannon are co-maids of honor, Joe is a groomsman/musician and Michael is a groomsman/THE OFFICIANT!!!

3.) Christmas Day: We spent Christmas day this year at the Harpers’ cabin in Sedona.  It is absolutely magical out there and we had a blast celebrating with the whole McCain crew (minus Jack – we missed you!).

All of the Harpers in front of the cabin

4.) Day After Christmas: The day after Christmas we headed back from the cabin and had another party in Phoenix.  The Harpers had lots of their family visit so we got to utilize the tent again for another fabulous meal.

Whew!  It’s been a lot but a LOT of FUN!  I hope you’ve had lovely holidays!!

xoxox

Rose-y Romance

Michael went to Ecuador last week and brought me back a little surprise…
2 Dozen Roses from the Rain Forest in Ecuador!!!  ummmmmazing!!!!

He traveled with them packed tightly in a box — apparently they had to be shaken in customs to check for bugs.  🙂
      

And here they are almost a week later – huge blooms, a little antique looking, and just BEAUTIFUL!

Thanks Michael!!

The 2nd Annual…

HARPER HOLIDAY HOORAH (& “Farewell, We’re Moving to Brazil!”) Party was this past Saturday.  It was a wonderful gathering of great friends, tasty treats, and lots of Christmas cheer.

One of the major highlights of the party is the gift exchange that is always full of surprises and hilarity.

Julie and Brendon with the legendary Shake Weight! Obviously this was quickly stolen away.

          Leah excited about her cushion massager

                

Michael Patrick Saign receiving applause from the crowd as he takes his ICE like a champ!

              

Some of Michael's "guys group" including DP, Sean, Brendon, Ethan, Harper (in his "festive-host scarf") and Thomas

Michael & me hanging out by the fire at the end of the night. Please note I am sporting the fabulous Santa earrings made by the one and only Clare Fincher of "I-D-Clare" -- thanks Nan! 🙂

All night I couldn’t stop looking around at all of our friends and thinking how blessed our time in San Francisco has been.  I am so thankful to God for the incredible people who He has put in our lives and for the amazing experiences we have had living here.  Although it is going to be very difficult to leave all that we have here, I pray and trust that God is preparing the path ahead of us as we soon open a new chapter and embark on a new journey.

Thanksgiving in South Carolina!

So, I realize that this Thanksgiving post is a little delayed, but hey, we’re moving continents, so I’m a little busy these days (more on those details soon).  At any rate, Michael and I had a fabulous Thanksgiving visiting my family in South Carolina.  Here are a few highlights…

Highlight #1: Meeting my PRECIOUS niece, Augusta Clare Zais.  Upon my arrival into Charleston, I was greeted and picked up by the cutest, newest Zais family: Brad, Suzanne and Augusta Clare.  I hadn’t seen Brad & Suzanne since their wedding so it was great to stay with them for a few days to catch up, hang out, see their new house, and of course, spend lots of quality time with AC.  She is suuuuuper awesome and they are fantastic parents.  Makes me so happy.  🙂  Michael also loved getting to meet his niece — he was great with her.
           

Highlight #2: Thanksgiving day with the entire Derham clan.  The Derhams were my mom’s mom’s parents.  They had 4 children: my grandmother Clare, her two sisters Sue and Sallie, and their little brother, Johnny.  This Thanksgiving all 4 of the Derham siblings, all of their kids, all of their kids, and all of their kids (which is actually just Augusta Clare – she is the first of her generation) + spouses were present.  It’s always a little chaotic but it’s family, it’s great food, and it’s lots of fun.

Highlight #3: Clemson vs. Carolina football game!  I grew up a Clemson fan because my grandfather went to Clemson and he is one of the most enthusiastic and loyal fans out there.  However, my mom went to the University of South Carolina AND my dad recently became a Board member there due to his current office as State Superintendent of Education.  This is really sweet because it meant we had great parking and box seats.  This was not sweet because it meant that I could neither wear orange nor cheer for the Tigers.  To compromise Michael and I wore neutrals and just embraced the amazing energy in the stadium.
So much to be thankful for right now but family is and always will be at the top of the list.  Hope your Thanksgiving was filled with fun and highlights too!

The Capitol City

As our move to Brazil is quickly approaching, Michael and I are realizing that there are many friends (and family members) who we will likely not be able to see for a few years.  To prepare for this, we are soaking up all the time we can get with those whom we love.

I happen to still have many dear friends in Washington, DC, so before the move I wanted to make a trip to see a few people.  It just so happened that Michael also needed to come out to DC for a few days for work, so we were able to make the trip together.  DC is where Michael and I first met and fell in love, so it always feels special to return together.  In a sense it feels a little like coming home for both of us.

It was a quick trip but I was blessed to see former roommates, friends from church, and I even got to stop by my old office to say hello to some former coworkers!

Friday night dinner at Cava with my two former roommates & their awesome boyfriends:

Me & Michael

Emily & Kern

Laine & Jake

Saturday brunch at Eastern Market with some friends from church.

Me, Michael, Paige, Jessica, TJ, Allison, Nathan & Alex!

Michael stayed an extra night to see some of his law school classmates but I headed straight to South Carolina for an extended Thanksgiving visit with my family & Michael will meet us here Thursday morning.  More on the SC visit soon!

xoxox,
ashley