26 Weeks

26 WeeksHow far along: 26 weeks & 2 days
Baby updates: Baby Harper is weighing about 2 lbs and is 14-15 inches long!
Mamma updates: I’ve been feeling great lately, although I do think the uncomfortable stage is starting to set in.  Usually I’m fine but our flight from the US to Brazil was especially tough for me.
Things I miss: Nothing this week!
Cravings: I have still been craving ice cream / milk shakes but also fruit and fruity candies like jolly ranchers and starbursts (which I otherwise would never want!).
Weight: +16 and wearing basically all maternity clothes these days.
Best moments of the week:  The absolute highlight of the week was celebrating Mike and Shannon’s wedding in Denver.shanThe entire weekend was so fun and special.  It was great getting to meet all of Mike’s family, getting to hang out with all of the Harpers, AND, bonus — my parents and grandparents came too!

Rehearsal dinner with my parents & grandparents!

Rehearsal dinner with my parents & grandparents!

Harper family with Mike & Shannon!  *Note: Sharon's dress is from their most recent visit to Brazil!  :)

Harper family with Mike & Shannon! *Note: Sharon’s beautiful dress is Brazilian!  She got it on their most recent visit to Brazil.  🙂

Michael & me with Harper siblings, Joe & Lise!

Michael & me with Harper siblings, Joe & Lise!

With the other parents-to-be, Christy & TJ, at Mike & Shannon's Irish send-off party!

With the other parents-to-be, Christy & TJ, at Mike & Shannon’s Irish send-off party!

Mamma Harper, Christy & Mamma Zais feeling Baby Harper

Christy, Mamma Harper & Mamma Zais feeling Baby Harper

Michael and I arrived back in Brazil yesterday and I have to say, although my time in the states was amazing, I have never been so happy to get home!

25 Weeks

25 weeksHow far along: 25 weeks & 2 days
Baby updates: Baby Harper is weighing 1.5-2 lbs now and is over a foot long.  He’s starting to beef up a little and apparently he is also growing hair and opening his little eyes! Weird!
Mamma updates: This has been a great week for me.  I still need a good night’s sleep but generally I am feeling great during the day.
Things I miss: We went out with friends to Lauriol Plaza and I definitely missed enjoying their amazing frozen margaritas!

Friends!!

Friends at Lauriol Plaza

Cravings: I’ve been having serious cravings for ice cream and oreo milkshakes this week.
Weight: +?.  I’m living out of hotels right now and haven’t gotten to weigh myself so I’m not sure.  However, I can report that I’m wearing almost exclusively maternity clothes and that the belly continues to “grow by the second,” as Michael says.  I like it but also get a little scared when I think about the fact that it will only continue to grow for almost 3 1/2 more months!
Best moments of the week:  It has been great to be back in DC with Michael.  It’s the city where we met and fell in love and just holds so many fun memories for us.  Further, we have been so blessed by all of the friends who we have gotten to see here as well.  More on our time in DC soon, but in the meantime, here are a couple of quick highlights!

The prettiest time of year in DC

The prettiest time of year in DC

Night 1 in DC, reunited with my old roomies, Laine & Emily!

Night 1 in DC, reunited with my old roomies, Laine & Emily!

GULC campus

GULC campus

24 Weeks

24How far along: 24 weeks & 2 days
Baby updates: Baby Harper is weighing over 1 lb now and is around a foot long!  He’s been extra active this week – cartwheels and somersaults galore!  Now if only he could tell me what name he wanted to be called – it’s such a tough decision!
Mamma updates: This past week has been unusually emotional for me.  It was like, literally overnight, all of these mama hormones and maternal instincts started kicking in and I started feeling super connected to our little guy and just couldn’t wait to hold him!  It’s hard to explain because it’s not that I wasn’t excited about him in the past, but some kind of switch flipped and I now feel differently about it.  It’s weird, but I think it’s a good thing.
Things I miss: Nothing this week!
Cravings: Along with the emotions, this week I also had the strongest cravings ever.  At one point I HAD to have Zaxby’s chicken fingers, fries and sauce and then later I was DESPERATE for ice cream.
Weight: +12.  And lots of strangers have started to approach me and ask me when I’m due or congratulate me, which means I’ve hit the point where I look undeniably pregnant.
Best moments of the week:  I loved spending a little more time at home with my family.  One night my mom sat up with me for an hour just feeling Baby Harper move around and kick.  Then I headed to Chicago to attend a conference for work and am now happily in DC, reunited with my sweet husband and some of my besties!  So fun getting to see so many people who I love right now!

Baby Shower in Columbia, SC

Last week my mom’s dear friend, Jane Suggs, and my cousin, Dolores Long, threw a beautiful baby shower for Baby Harper and me.  Jane hosted the shower in her gorgeous home and they served a delicious dinner to a group of about 30 ladies which included a mix of family and friends from across the state.  I was so touched by everyone who came and the generosity and love of our friends and family.  It’s such a blessing to be so strongly supported during a time like this.

The amazing set-up and decor including the beautifully done diaper cake.DSC_0002DSC_0013DSC_0003DSC_0004

My sweet, pretty mama!  I hope I’m like her!DSC_0026Friends & family!DSC_0035DSC_0029DSC_0023DSC_0030DSC_0041DSC_0036 I swear Amanda gets prettier AND sweeter every time I see her. DSC_0025

Jane giving the loveliest toast and blessing. DSC_0033Time for gifts!  I was thankful to have my precious cousin Margaret beside me, helping me get through them all!

My grandmother, Nan, crocheted the edges of this sweet blanket.DSC_0061

Absolutely in love with the blanket, sweater and booties that my Aunt Sheryl knit!

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So excited for our diaper bag!DSC_0055

Huge thank you to my shower hostesses, Dolores and Jane!  It was such a gorgeous and special night and a memory that I will treasure! DSC_0080

23 Weeks

23 WeeksHow far along: 23 weeks & 1 day
Baby updates: Baby Harper is weighing over 1 pound now and is around 11 inches long — the length of my Easter basket! He’s moving around a lot and both my mom and Michael have gotten to feel him.
Mamma updates: I’m still feeling great these days, just adjusting to how my body is changing.  It’s weird because I feel so normal that I forget how different I look until I walk by a mirror or see myself in pictures.
Things I miss: Missing a nice glass of Sauvignon Blanc this week.
Cravings: Oreo cookie ice cream sandwiches.  They’re amazing.  And an otherwise very healthy appetite.
Weight: +11.5.  Based on my BMI, I’m supposed to gain around 35 lbs during pregnancy (yikes!).  So with 17 weeks to go, I think I’m basically on track.  At this point I’m wearing maternity jeans/tights with a mix of maternity and regular tops.  Most of my old dresses “fit,” however whether they look right or not really depends on the cut of the dress.  According to my sweet husband, I had “doubled in size” over the past two weeks that we were apart.  Juuuuuuust what I wanted to hear.  🙂
Best moments of the week:  So many blessings this week!
First, my mom’s dear friend, Jane Suggs, and my cousin, Dolores Long, threw me a baby shower on Tuesday night.  More to come on this special night soon!DSC_0001 Next, it was so wonderful having Michael come visit for Easter.  We got to do a lot of shopping for our little guy, go to Good Friday service with my grandparents, have a little date, and celebrate Easter with my family.  So many sweet moments.  We even got an extra day together when his original flight back was canceled, but he left this evening and I’ll be seeing him next Tuesday in DC.  Life is just better together. DSC_0138

Surprise Shower for Baby Harper!

As I was getting ready for my baby shower tonight, I realized that I still hadn’t posted on the surprise baby shower that was thrown for me in Charleston!  So, before I head off tonight I wanted to at least post some pictures.

The story, as it was told to me, was that my dear friends Meredith (who was getting married in Charleston) and Elizabeth were talking, when Meredith said that it was a shame that she wouldn’t be able to celebrate me while I was pregnant, as the only time we knew that we would be around each other was her wedding weekend.  Elizabeth’s response was, “Well, if you want to do it and can find an hour or so, I’ll make it happen.”  (If you know her, then you know this is a very Elizabeth response.)  Meredith found about an hour and a half in between her rehearsal and rehearsal dinner (seriously) and said that they could do it at her parent’s house.  So, Elizabeth reached out to my mom and started coordinating everything.  My mom told them that if they wanted to do it, then it would have to be a surprise because there is no way I would agree to having a baby shower on Meredith’s wedding weekend (and she was absolutely right).  However, they were determined so they kept it a surprise, and on Friday March 15, Elizabeth showed up to Meredith’s house while we were all at the rehearsal and started setting up the amazing display of cupcakes, food and snacks, the whole lemonade set-up with mason jars & straws, the banner, and a copy of “Oh the places you’ll go” that all of the party guests signed!  She is kind of amazing.

When I walked in I was not only shocked but also totally confused, as having a baby shower was clearly the last thing on my mind.  I mean, here I am, Meredith’s Matron of Honor, trying to totally focus all of my energy and attention on her as we are coming home from a wonderful wedding rehearsal, about to rest and then get ready for the rehearsal dinner that night, and I walk into a room full of my family and friends and a banner that says, “Baby Boy Harper!”  It was definitely a shock.

OK – enough back-story.  Here are some pictures!

"Oh the places you'll go" adorable / delicious cupcakes!

“Oh the places you’ll go” adorable / delicious cupcakes!

Beautiful and yummy food!

Beautiful and yummy food!

Lemonade in mason jars with cute straws!

Lemonade in mason jars with cute straws!

Mary Carol Fortune.  What a little cutie.

Mary Carol Fortune. What a little cutie.

Walking in - totally confused.

Walking in – totally surprised and confused.

My amazing friends assuring me that it was in fact a surprise shower for Baby H!

My amazing friends assuring me that it was in fact a surprise shower for Baby H!

Sweet Augusta Clare entertaining the crowd.

Sweet Augusta Clare entertaining the crowd.

H burp cloth sent all the way from Kelli K Mayfield!

H burp cloth sent all the way from Kelli K Mayfield!

Baby Harper getting his first Clemson gear from Nanny & Papa Fincher

Baby Harper getting his first Clemson gear from Nanny & Papa Fincher

Michael calling in on Facetime, maybe even more confused than I was when I first walked in.

Michael called on Facetime and I think he may have been even more confused than I was when I first walked in.

Showing Michael the beautiful onesie that his sweet mama had sent for the occasion.

Showing Michael the beautiful onesie that his sweet mama had sent for the occasion.

Daddy!

Daddy!

Wofford girls!

Wofford girls!

Hudson cousins!

Hudson cousins!

It was such a blast, and honestly I still can’t believe it happened.  Thank you to everyone who came out to be there, to Meredith and her mom, Susan, for being so incredibly generous and hospitable with you home and you precious time during a weekend that was so special, and a huge thank you to Elizabeth for all that you did and for making it happen!  I can’t believe how blessed I am to have such kind and caring friends.  Amazing!!